“I will most gladly
spend and be spent for your souls. If I love you more, am I to be loved
less?” 2 Corinthians 12:15
Perhaps you have a
couple of friends like this. You go out to coffee, talk, laugh and share
stories. Then, getting up to leave, he reaches for the bill without allowing me
even a courteous attempt at paying it myself. Then, a few days later I visit
another friend for lunch. We talk about mutual interests, catch up on old times
and tease the entire wait staff. Without a moment’s thought she sweeps up the
check with sleight-of-hand dexterity. I didn’t have a chance. Or, maybe we are
going to a movie and the same friend is impatiently keeping his place in line
ahead of me. Of course, I understand why once we are at the ticket booth and he
is saying, “Two, please.”